Tag: adoptee. closed adoptee

• I have to believe

  I have to believe my mummy saw me, held me, loved me and said goodbye. I have to. I can see her holding me, my tiny hand is wrapped around one of her fingers. She is gazing down at me, she thinks I am beautiful. My little shock of wavy black hair, my porcelain white…

  Private Person

  March 26, 2023

  Uncategorized

  adoptee lives, adoptee pain, adoptee trauma, adoptee. closed adoptee, adoptees, adoption, adoption Aotearoa, adoption NZ, closed adoption, mother daughter, mother love

• This estranged adoptee

  How did I become estranged from my supposed “family” ? How did I end up in this position in my life? I have made the definitive decision to go No Contact. The irony is, they have been doing this to me for virtually 30 years and I have just cottoned on. Duh ! This adoptee…

  Private Person

  March 26, 2023

  Uncategorized

  adoptee and estrangement, adoptee. closed adoptee, adoption, adoption estrangement, closed adoption, estrangement, family divorce, family estrangement, No Contact